“Family meeting kids! Everyone on the couch!”
Maybe it was the tone that this was said, the look it was said with, or the smoke coming out of my ears but when that announcement rang out, all people measuring under three and half feet wasted no time jumping onto the couch with expectant little faces.
To be on the safe side, I decided I better define emergency.
“Emergencies are anything involving blood or fire. Got it?”
The three kids stared at me, wide-eyed and attempting to mirror my own serious expression. My four-year-old shot his hand in the air to ask a question,
“Oh, and we can come up if there is a lion out of his cage too, right?”
Sigh.
“Yes, that would be okay.”
That idea got my five-year-old thinking, “What about if a tiger is out of his cage AND inside our house, then can we come up?”
BIG sigh.
“Yes, if a tiger or lion is IN our house, that would be an emergency too.”
“It’s okay EvaLee,” I assured her, “More than likely, a tiger or lion will never be inside our home, don’t cry, okay?”
And with that, everyone began talking...and crying at once. There was talk about lions and tigers ...and fire! I was so busy reassuring EvaLee that tigers couldn’t get into our house and confirming with Gideon that one should stop, drop and roll if their clothes caught on fire that I totally forgot why I had even called a family meeting about in the first place!
Sometimes I think I have it backwards when I review my day and consider what I DIDN’T accomplish because of the many distractions caused by the kids. What if I considered my children the priority and all the OTHER stuff (dishes, phone calls, laundry, projects, errands, MY agenda) the distractions?
Then I wouldn’t be so disappointed if, at the end of the day, there were still dishes in the sink but art projects drying on the counter. I’d care less about stains on their clothes and care more about the good memories made in their hearts from sharing a messy banana split! I’m working on working a little less so I can be “distracted more”...even if it means I get interrupted while rocking a baby to sleep with a missing Hot-Wheel’s car “emergency”!
I think another family meeting is in order. This time I’m going to sit everyone measuring under three and half feet down with a serious look to tell them something very important. They should know their momma is never too busy or doing something so important that they can’t interrupt every now and then. There’s no need to wait for escaped lions, tigers or FIRE to get my attention!
2 comments:
How sweet and such a great reminder when you're feeling overwhelmed. I wonder how my kids might be different if I would have taken that advice when they were younger?
Rachel--I can't imagine that your kids would have turned out any better, you are such an amazing mom!! Don't beat yourself up, you did and are still doing a great job as a mother. I know the feeling though--I feel badly about mistakes I make along the way but thank God He is bigger than US! (;
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